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Hi Reader One of my students (I’ll call him Andrew) is a junior in an intensive intro to Calculus course. He’s the type of student most parents hope for: conscientious, prepared, cares a lot about performing at his potential. In fact, he’s usually harder on himself than anyone else is. When he makes a mistake, he gets frustrated and disappointed, not because his parents are pressuring him, but because he holds himself to a high standard. Recently, we hit a strange pattern. We were working on a calculus idea that involved writing equations of basic lines. The kind of thing a middle‑schooler would recognize immediately. The twist: lots of small decimal numbers and no calculator. On several problems in a row, Andrew made simple calculation mistakes:
He wasn’t lost on the calculus. So now he was stuck in a painful gap: “I know I learned this in elementary school. So why am I getting it wrong?” Here’s what we talked about. I told him, “Sometimes the ancient ways are the best.” There is a perfectly good way to subtract or multiply decimals. You just aren’t using it. Ask any 4th grader:
But you only get the benefit if you actually write it out and run the process, not if you hope your brain magically supplies the right answer. As we get older, we start to feel like we’re “too advanced” for those ancient processes. They feel childish or beneath us. My view: I don’t care if it’s childish. I care if it’s correct. Jot the problem on your paper. Bring down the decimal. Count on your fingers. Borrow from the tens place. Whatever you learned that you know works. Those deep, early‑grade processes do more than get the right answer. They ground the new work. Connecting 7th‑grade slope skills to “fancy” calculus makes the new material stickier and shows the student they’ve actually mastered the idea. For Andrew, the key wasn’t just the technique. It was permission. He needed to hear that writing it out “like a 4th grader” wasn’t a failure; it was a strength. Once he had that permission, he relaxed, started using the process he actually trusted, and the decimal mistakes disappeared. If you remember only one thing from this story, let it be this: Give your student permission to “use the ancient ways.” Remind them of what they already know. Encourage them to bring those methods forward into harder classes. And when you see them use those tools and get it right, pause and celebrate it. If your teen is in a tough math or science class and making these kinds of avoidable mistakes, hit reply and tell me what class it is and what you’re noticing. I read every reply. Warmly, Kevin P.S. If you already know you’d like a more structured plan for this semester or for SAT/ACT prep, you can book a short Parent Fit Call here: https://calendly.com/kevinadoty/parent-fit-call-sat-act-advanced-classes |
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